生日 "birthday"

今天，我听到一个很有趣的问题，是我们很少去想的，也很少去在乎的。在团契中，我们都分享这两个题目。

【生日，对你有什么意义？】

【在你过去的日子里，哪一次的生日是你最难忘的？】

生日，到底有什么意义哦？对多数人来说，生日，一年一次嘛。长大了，麻木了，没什么意义了，有也这样，没有也还是那样。大部分的答案，都是…..没有意义。年龄越大，越对生日没有期待。这是真的吗？也许吧…老一辈的，都不玩这一套了。年轻一辈的，不是伴侣帮你弄个惊喜生日，不然就是在面子书上受到许许多多的祝贺。一部分的人，忘了自己的生日。一部分的人，对生日那一天没有任何期待。

生日，是你人生中一年一次的纪念日。纪念那一天，独一无二的你诞生来到这个花花世界。

生日，不止代表着诞生，也代表着成长。从一个年龄进到一个年龄，或者说是成熟。

生日，对每个人都带着不同的意义。只是你怎么去看这两个词的意思。

生日，那是属于你自己的public holiday.

对我而言，生日就像一个关卡。当你越过了这个关卡，你开始就进到另一个领域、另一个level.  那时，你得更加成熟、更加成长来面对新一年的挑战。从小开始，我对生日很有期待。我也参加过几次别人的生日派对。Wao…我真的很羡慕他们。一堆的朋友、一堆的礼物、一堆美食、一堆的娱乐等着。而我自己本身呢，家里的状况不许可咯，那些大大的party，就别指望吧。

对于小时候的生日，我有两个印象。第一个，就是老妈买了一粒小小粒的蛋糕（反正没有人吃，就买个小小的给我咯）。那是小时候老妈给我的一个回忆。没有礼物、没有朋友帮我庆祝，但心里至少有了那一点点的欣慰了咯。

第二个呢，就是在某一年的生日。不知是何故的，那一天吃寿面吃太多吧，吃到…不消化…泻肚子…生病。后来有一段时间我对寿面有恐惧、阴影。O(∩_∩)O哈哈~，不过近来几年都不怕了。

难忘的生日，18岁的生日非我难忘莫属了。我都还记得那一次的生日多么的难忘。还记得生日的前几天，收到了干妹送的水壶。生日那一天，许许多多意想不到的惊喜、来自某些人的祝福。那一天，更有两个我意想不到的朋友买了蛋糕来我家帮我庆祝。呵呵，那一天的惊喜，真的是让我又惊又喜。那一天，我真的很蒙福了。全都是因为主耶稣祝福我。

我最难忘的不但是我自己的生日，更是为朋友准备生日的过程。我为好几个朋友搞过惊喜的生日。看到她们的惊讶，我的心里也替她们开心。虽然过程让我日思夜思，但是我很享受很愿意给她们一个特别的生日。

我期待2011年的生日，但是，没想到，我现在身在古晋读书了。生日的那一天，人不在诗巫。有想过一个冲动，就是前一天赶回去家乡，然后生日的第二天再回来古晋。那不被老妈骂死才怪叻。

还以为，期待那帮朋友帮我庆祝..

还以为，可能会受到谁谁的礼物…


还不知有没有可能咯。 =(

想都不敢想咯，只怕等下失望吧。我期待的惊喜，期待的庆祝，谁来给我呢？？那一天该不该回去叻？

算咯，我知道上天对我不薄，它不会让我失望的。就以平常心来看这一天咯。喜欢给人惊喜的我，有时候也想被人给惊喜吧。也许我心里还有期待一点吧^^.


好好把握你那一年一次的生日，因为生日对你而言是非常有意义的。

 “birthday”

Today, I have been asking to a interesting question. This two question, we didn’t care  about it on sometime.

【For you, what is the meaning of “birthday” ？】

【At the past of year, which year of “birthday” is the most unforgettable ?】

Actually, what is the meaning of birthday ? most of the people will say, “one year celebrate one time..”

“sometime will forget because of busy..”

“just is a normal day, nothing  special on this day..”

Most of the elder, they  didn’t celebrate many year . But for the teenager, they will get the surprise on the birthday. They will get the blessing from the facebook’s friends.

Some of them, they will forget about the day. Some of them, they didn’t expect or any hope on this day.

Birthday, is celebrate to you. Because a unique of you is coming to this world.

Birthday, is doesn’t mean to birth only, it also mean a growing to you.

You will step into a new level on this day. That mean you will become more  mature.

Birthday is given a different meaning to different people. 

Birthday, is a public holiday for yourself.

For me, birthday is a checkpoint, or is a toll. When you crossing over this checkpoint, you are coming to next higher level. More of things and problem will facing to you. When I was child, I was very very expected to the birthday.  Everytime when I join to my friend’s birthday party. I also want to have a same party like them. Many friends , many present, many food, many entertainment. But, because of my family financial problem, those big big party will not one of my part in my life.

I got 2 special memory about birthday when I was child. Firstly, is one of the year birthday, my mum bought me a small cake. That just only enough for me.  No any friends, no any gift with me. Just a simple way to celebrate for me. But, It become a good memory with my mum and i.

Second, it become a interesting incident for me. Haha~  according to the Foochow traditional, they will eat 鸡汤面线( ji tan mie xian) and red egg on birthday. 鸡汤面线 is a kind of mee from the Chinese of Foochow. That day, I eat too much. Vomit, sick was happen on me at that night. On that few year, I’m was scare about this food. But now is ok already.

The unforgettable birthday is birthday of age 18, that is on the last year. Until today, I still cannot forgot what is going on about this day. Before the birthday, I was received the mineral bottle from my sister. On the day, I was getting surprise. Some of the blessing is come from the person that was impossible. Many of blessing, many of surprise, is coming from the many friends. At afternoon, two of my friends suddenly came to my house. They also brought the cake and celebrate for me.haha, I really don’t know they will do that for me before. That day, I’m was full with blessing, because jesus love me. He blessing to me too much.

I also cannot forget when I was helping to prepare surprise birthday to my friends. When I was saw they are happy because of the surprise, I’m also happy with them. Although that was difficult to make a surprise, but I was enjoy in this preparing.

I was expect on this birthday of 2011. Unlucky is, now I was study in Kuching.

On the birthday,I was not at Sibu. I have a idea before, is going back on Friday, celebrate on Saturday, and quickly back on Sunday. Haha.. Maybe I will kill by my mum because of this action.

I think, those group of my best my friends will celebrate for me…

I think, this year still will receive the present..


But, will this happen ? 

Different place and different friends. I don’t know they will do for me or not, but, I just face on that day with the normal mood.

Surprise that I expect, celebration that I want..who will give me ? Should I back on that day ?

That’s okay..i know the god will give me what I want. He won’t let me getting disappointment. I like to gave the surprise, sometime I also want to have a surprise from the other people.Maybe I still have a bit of expect on that day.^^  Thanks god.

Just cherish on your birthday. Because your birthday is meaningful to you.

这个假期：珍惜它 (This holiday : cherish it )

当你去珍惜它时，它就越快的离开

当你抛弃、不睬它时，它却紧紧跟随在你的身边。它就越慢离开你。

这个它，就是时间。

在古晋读书将近两个月，终于等到这一个星期的假期。那是我左盼右盼的日子。因为我终于可以回去我的家乡看看我的父母、我的朋友。一路上的路程，我的心情，满怀着期待与兴奋。

当我踏进家里的那一刻，我真的感觉到，家，是那么的温暖。我感觉到，家，就是那我所期待的避风港。这一晚，我睡着我的床铺，我的抱枕，那种的感觉，无法形容。我回来的第一天，我就先去见一位朋友。这位朋友，我起初也不是跟她那么那么的熟。还没过来读书前，没那么多话的。那天刚巧有机会与她相聚，我觉得，我应该要去见她。不知不觉，原来她变成我所重视的朋友之一吖。哈哈，她就是 Lu Leeqing.在见面的时候，原来我们还蛮多东西好说，好分享。我还想要下一次。J

晚上，更是我真正所期待的。我等待遇见我的朋友们，我所敬爱的干妹，我最好的朋友都在那里。那天晚上，每遇见一个朋友，我的喜乐就多加了一分。

我与我KLT 的朋友们相聚。那一次的相聚，真的令我非常非常的难忘。我真的很开心。最重要的，回去时还可以看到惠惠，更开心。因为她还可以留下来了。^^

到了拜三，我去参加了两堂的聚会。哇，这两堂的聚会，真的非常的感谢神。它让我把过去所有的伤痛，伤心，完完全全都发泄了出来。那天，我真的完全松了。我知道当我不知道该怎么办时怎么办。

最后两晚，那是我这个星期以来最珍贵的晚上。我与我的好干妹难得出来见面。我们有聊不完的话题，聊不完的心事。那种相聚，真的好棒。

拜日，当我一路上回来的时候，我的心情很沉重。我的脑海里，都是所有我朋友的画面，所有我们相聚的画面。

                         （Baba & Siam 2 : 与KLT 的姐妹们聚餐 ）

         
                                                   （Tanjung manis 海边）

（最后一个星期六下午：那两个是惠惠，ah ngo..最棒的午餐。）

这，就是我对这整个星期的回忆。我很珍惜这些的画面。朋友，我爱你们。

珍惜所拥有的时间。你不知你所拥有的何时会结束，你不知你所拥有的是否长久，

你不知你身边的那个何时不再理你，但是你必须知，时时刻刻珍惜。

The conclusion of this holiday.

When  you cherish  to it, it will leave as soon as possible.

When you reject  or  ignore it, it don’t want to leave you, it will stay with you as long as possible.

That is call “time”

I come to Kuching study is almost two month, finally the raya holiday is coming. I’m was look forward to this holiday, because finally I can go back and see my parents, and my goodness friends. On the way back to sibu, I was expected to see them and also feel excited.

The moment that I step into my home,  the feeling of home, is so warm for me. Home, is my refuge. That night, when I sleep on my bed, the pillow that I hug, that feeling is could compare with the bed in the school. The second day morning, I must go to visit one of my friend. She called Lu Leeqing.  Before I came to Kuching study, I didn’t chat too much with her.  But, after 2 month I was here, I found that she  is one of my very care friend. I should see her. At the process of chatting with her, I can talk many many thing to her. I feel very comfortable when I share my word to her .

At night, that is my truly expect night. My friend, my lovely sister ,  all was there. I feel very very joyful after chatting with them.

At the night on Monday, I gathering with my KLT friend (also call BM gang), That night memory , really really make me so unforgettable. I like them all..

On Wednesday, I go to the service of pastor Kong Hee. At this two service, I release many many of  my sadness and my pain.  God also teach me when I don’t know how to do, you should know how to do.

The last two night, is my most memory night. I meet with my sister. I care her so much. Until now, the memory  still in my  mind.

When I back to kuching again on Sunday, my mood is oppressive. On the way on the bus, the memory, the image of gathering , all appear in mind.

I  like this holiday , it was so meaningful to me.

(Restaurant Baba & Siam 2 , gathering with my KLT friends)

( Tanjung Manis beach)

                        (A nice afternoon , have a lunch with Ah ngo, huihui and their friends)

Cherish the time that you have. You don’t know when will end that you got , you don’t know how much longer that you got , you don’t know when the person beside with you will leave , but you must know, cherish what you have now.